I forgot to mention... I wouldn't have guessed that about you, but that doesn't surprise me. It's really not something that jumps out at you about people, especially in writing.

I completely understand that you don't feel the need to bring it up. Why should you? Like many things, it's not something you're required to announce. Like sexuality... does anyone really need to declare that to people, if it doesn't involve them? My BFF doesn't know if he'll ever "come out" back at home, because he just thinks it's none of their fucking business (and many have proven they aren't advanced enough as people to deal with it... small towns are terrible for that).

Still, it's nice to be able to be open about it, if it comes up. I'm glad my cousin feels comfortable talking about it now.