Yeah, I know you didn't mean it like that. I would think similarly of people if they just seemed to drop the animal off like it was no big deal. It just reminded me of that situation, where we had no options. They didn't give my mother much of a choice, but I think she really couldn't handle it either, so she was relieved to go. I would have stayed anyway, since I'm like that. It still bothers me that I wasn't able to take the cat myself.