If Phi were cut out of the picture there would be not J/R/O, and that would be a tragedy. Seriously, I can't understand removing her when she's, like, the axis around which so many relationships revolve. She is just so sad and strong and kind and ilu forever Ophelia. :<

Obviously, we're not going to like every person in the world, same goes for characters in stories, but before passing judgment on a character be sure to think about why you don't like them.
This, so hard. One of my favorite lurking fandoms is Torchwood, and there is just so much hatred for the female lead, Gwen, that it makes me sick. The most commonly touted reason for this? She's a bitch and a whore.

And I'm sorry, but 'she's a bitch and a whore' are not valid defenses for disliking a character. Expound, please.